Last week he blew me off for 3 days in a row. left him a voicemail Friday night saying I was off work and wanted to go drinking. Didnt hear back from him for hours. Got an invite to our mutual friends house so I sent him a text inviting him. Low and behold- after 3 days of him ignoring me- he calls as soon as I say Im going out to our friends place. So obviously he doesnt give a crap about hanging out with me- he just wanted to go out there. And when I called him out on not calling me back- he said he was preoccupied. i said "preoccupied with what?". he said "drinking". I said "I wanted to drink and I left you a message telling you that!" Brat. Then later that night he apologized for not calling me for 3 days and said I worry too much.
So he stayed the night out there Friday and I didnt hear from him at all after we got back Saturday, even tho he said he would call me when he was done helping his friend move. Ryan called me, so i ended up going to the golf course with him and then to Lonnie and Katie's and then watching movies. While I was watching movies with Ryan, Steven called me, accused me of cheating on him and then didnt answer my call when I got home later, even tho he said he wanted to come over. He was all butthurt because I was out watching movies with friends (he didnt know it was Ryan) and I wasnt immeditately available to see him. It was only an hour but he made a big deal saying he was waiting for me FOREVER. yet he goes out and does whatever he wants with his friends for days at a time.
I called him Sunday morning to ask if he wanted to go fishing and he said no he had to move again but that he would call when he got done. Of course I didnt hear from him again all day. Finally he sent me a text saying he was going fishing. Bastard! I called him because I wanted to go fishing but he didnt answer. Finally about 9pm I heard from him and he came over and I tried to talk to him but he was too busy being immature to listen.
Then last night I called him right as I was getting off of work and then his friend called andhe said he would call me right back. Didnt call me back. So I called him and he said he was going fishing again. He knows Ive been wanting to go really bad! I asked who with and it was a whole group of people so I asked if I could go and his response...."well I was planning on not having you go." Not, "oh maybe next time", or "we are already on our way but you could meet us out there if you want" or "I wasnt planning on having you go". He actually said he was planning on NOT having me there. Well fuck that makes me feel pretty damn unwanted. And hes the one who accuses me of cheating on him!!! Then he said it was a pain in the ass to wait for me. Well he never tells me the plan or what time to be ready yet he expects to just be ready at the drop of a hat. well Im fuckin sorry i didnt know there was fishing happening and Im sorry Im at work and I dont have my fishing stuff with me but if you had told me ahead of time I could have been ready to go! what a jerk. He just totally blew me off and in a mean way. And he said he would call me when he got home but of course he didnt.
Im just sick of it. Hes being a total flake and I told him I hate that. He goes off with his friends and I dont hear from him for days but when I go off and do my own thing he gets all butthurt and accuses me of cheating on him. He says hes gonna do stuff but then he doesnt. He doesnt want me to hang out with his friends or meet his parents or even call me his girlfriend. Hes done unless he shapes up real quick. Why the fuck did I think I could date a 22 year old? He knows nothing about relationships and in fact acts like a girlfriend is the last thing he wants.
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