more New Years Revelations (and Resolutions!)

Maybe I need to quit letting my relationships with men drag me down and pull me up. Maybe I need to spend the new year getting to know myself, bettering myself, and concentrating on other things that will make my life better besides men. Maybe I need some "me" time. I need to figure out what I want, where I am going, what will make me feel good. I hate how lately Ive become so dependant on men to give me what I need...I cant let that happen! And I shouldnt!